24 Things That Make You Look MESSY!

As my students used to say years ago “honesty time chommie(s) …”  – most of us are a little messy. Yes, you get the people that put the “Devil” in “The Devil Wears Prada” to shame. But the majority of South Africans are a little messy in some way, and some…  well, some are just shamelessly scruffy, dishevelled and “nogals” shabby. Although appearances aren’t everything; it is at least important that you know what is messy; so that you can make an informed decision when you next exit your safe-haven known as home.




#1 Wrinkled Clothes


Yes – some clothes are meant to be wrinkled – like a pleated skirt. Anything other than that should be wrinkle-free. But if you insist on sporting the wrinkled-chic shirt or frock, know that the people around you think you are scruffy for days.




#2 Whites That Aren’t White Anymore


And this is what is disappointing about white clothes – it feels like you barely brought the whites into your lair of a cupboard and it changes colour to a light putrid yellow. But as frustrating as it is – know that off-white-whites are super scruffy.

#3 Hair Ties or “Elastic” Bangles


Practical perhaps but messy – absolutely! And what makes it worse is if the hair bracelet has strands of old hair wrapped around it too – what are you going to make muti from it later? Rather pop the elastic in your pocket or handbag and not your arm.

#4 Chipped Nail Polish


As frustrating as the practice is to keep your nails looking “ncah” – at the very least keep them neat, and clean. If you can’t afford to spend your hard-earned moola on a nail salon – try some of the gelish paint ranges like Sally Hansen or at least a product that lasts the commute to work (at work you can play “touch-up-touch-up” in the loo).

#5 Pants That Are Too Long and Ill-Fitting Clothes


Looooong and looooooose pants…it looks messy. And what’s worse is if you keep stepping on those pants they will be dirty and frayed in a Jozi minute. Most laundromats have a resident tailor that can take-in pants for a nominal fee.   So take the “me” out of messy and visit that tailor.

Nothing says yucky more than clothes that are a few sizes too small. Muffin tops and something-toes will make you a popular albeit unfortunate topic of discussion. A lot of people don’t want to be larger than the size they always have been – so they squeeze into clothes in that size. Rather get comfortable and look like a million bucks in a size 16 than look like an over-stuffed boerewors roll in a size 10. And be honest with yourself – are you really going to lose all that weight in the next month? You can always take-in the bigger clothes once you do lose the weight. In the meanwhile, buy the bigger size and look fab at whatever size you are currently.

#6 Too Many Bags


Look if you are pummelling into the house after the monthly shop – you are excused. But never, ever carry too many bags when you are trying to make a serious, I-mean-business, I-am-a-professional-adult impression. It looks ridiculous, messy and a little like you are losing it.

Also, don’t use a diaper sized bag unless you have kids under the age of three.

#7 Noticeable Fur Baby Hair and Fluff


Well, as much as it is an honour to wear your fur-babies hair on your clothes – other people might judge you as scruffy. Get a roller for work, your car and your home. This way you can de-fur before you meet with your director, clients, hot date (only if you are single or the hot date is your significant other) or during a job interview.  #SayNoToFur

#8 Poor Fitting Shoes


You must always Cinderella it. The shoe must always fit perfectly – not too small (like the evil stepsisters) and not too big (like Cinder’s 12-year-old half-sister). If you bought shoes to large – get inner soles from Dischem or Clicks; if they are slightly too tight, you do get shoe stretchers that can stretch your shoes slightly. Other than that… just buy shoes that fit and donate shoes that don’t.

#9 Frayed Cuffs or Hems


This isn’t the 90s! Frayed jeans and pants, and cuffs aren’t grunge chic –just grunge-shabby.

#10 Greasy Hair That’s Worn Loose


Look nobody expects you to wash your hair daily. But if you are going to wear it loose – wash your hair daily. Nothing, nada, niks, zilch looks as bad as a lady or gent that wears his or her hair loose when their hair isn’t 100% clean. Those fine, oily, dreadlock-ish strands that may look fresh to you is, in fact, making you the laughing stock amongst your co-workers and looks beyond unkempt and elevates you to look like a 15th Century villain – sies man! Just tie your hair up for the sake of your reputation and nearest and dearest’s sanity if your hair isn’t 100% clean.

#11 Underwear Showing


Oooo eh eh! Fashion may at some stage have dictated that underwear needs to show but please reconsider this in 2018 and beyond. Faded bra straps, with only one hook still operational and back fat on display, just don’t do anyone any favours. M-E-S-S-Y! There are so many options for bra-wearers to consider these days. Go for a proper fitting and invest in the right bras for your outfits. It looks super sloppy if your bra hangs out for all to see.

#12 Foundation That Doesn’t Match


Base isn’t a tanning method, and neither is it a bleaching option. Every makeup store has an arsenal of people ready to assist you in selecting the right base for your skin tone. Don’t look like Bobo the Clown or someone that just jumped out of Jersey Shore. It looks tacky for days if your base is too orange/dark or light. Test! Test! Test!

#13 The Missed Belt Loop


This may not be a train smash, but it does make you look a little sloppy. And nobody likes to be labelled as sloppy!

#14 Dirty Shoes


It’s a dusty and muddy world – but your shoes don’t have to reflect this. A quick wipe-wipe could mean the difference between exuding messiness, or class…

#15 Stains (Pit, Sauce, Old, Deodorant)


Stains whether from sweat, spaghetti carbonara, café latte, your deodorant or makeup, are annoying and they take you from hero to zero on the neat/scruffy-ometer instantly. Whatever your stain of choice or fate – deal with it. Google always knows the answer – don’t let your sweaty pit stains ruin your day and relationships at work. Don’t let your beetroot lunch – ruin your life. Take charge of your stains.

#16 Dirty Glasses


Anyone that ever has worn glasses knows that just keeping the suckers clean is a fulltime job. Even with the best intentions, it seems as though grease finds and attaches itself to your lenses. But keep them clean and everyone’s impressions of you grime-free!

#17 Over Accessorising


Here Coco Chanel says it best: “Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and remove one accessory.”




#18 Wearing Tekkies In Non-Tekkie Situations


Ooooo but South Africans – Crocs aside – tekkies are almost seen as national dress wear. But please, please, please – keep the tekkies for the gym, the hiking trails and the sports field – but for goodness sake – nowhere else!

#19 Showing Up With Wet Hair


Not a crime at all. Just know that when you show up in any situation with wet hair other than when you walked out of the sea, shower or pool – you look a mess. If you have no power in the morning (like many Pretoria East people) then you possibly can be excused; but only if the whole suburb didn’t have power.

#20 Leggings As Pants


The fact that this must be addressed is scandalous. But leggings aren’t pants. And know if you wear them as if they are, someone should tell you this… everyone is discussing it and not in a good way. Say no to wearing pantyHOse as pants.

#21 Yesterday’s Makeup


Some call it a walk of shame, others a babalaas, others running out of makeup remover. But whatever the reason, don’t look like a panda because of yesterday’s makeup.




#22 Sleep In Your Eyes


While on the topic of panda eyes. If you prefer to go to work or wherever fresh-faced (aka don’t feel like doing anything) just wipe the crusty bits of sleep from your eyes. Then at least you will look slightly less derelict.




#23 Banana Clips – Un-Styled Half Buns


Banana clips are strictly for use when blow drying your hair, when in the shower or bath or washing your face. And that’s it. In any other situation, they are just doing you a disservice. As easy and convenient as they are – just don’t do it.


The un-styled and messy half-buns are also a great way to make you look like a mess that no one should take seriously. With just a little bit of effort and exploring on YouTube or Pinterest – doing your hair can be great fun and take less than five minutes.

#24 Cracked Heels


In winter the cracked canyons known as your heels may be acceptable to you because it is hidden in socks, boots and the like. But exposing the world to your crevassed heels in summer is a disservice to the community and yourself. It instantly makes you look scruffy. With a million remedies available to you, the hidden caves of your heels can be banished forever.

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